What is the best way to word it. I care about this man and his children are a part of it. So take care of them?

While the kids my boyfriend is sick and I want to express my concern then, without seeming strange because in reality they are nothing to me as it is. I know what I mean, but I say that I care for him are part of it so i care for them. I heard someone use the phrase represented in this matter I for him by proxy for what I care about them. But to find the definition of the phrase can not seam quite right how do i suggest that neighborhood

Say you care about children "by proxy" would sound cold and unfeeling. That is a very poorly to phrase it. I think you should say that just as your question here. To care for your boyfriend as a whole person, and children are part of what it is man. Therefore, to care for them. Are important to you, because are important to him. And you want to be supportive of it, so you can be supportive for them. Also, you should tell your children should be number one in your life. Any parent who does not put your children first is not so much an adult. That's especially true when children are sick. So let him know that you understand and is how things should be. (Y, is part of the help that you fit into your long-term vision.) Good luck, honey.

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